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I literally thought I would not survive without. This has a tendency to make me feel VERY angry because I know from where it comes in relationship to my childhood and that deep, overwhelming need to be and feel loved. I have been away from it for two years now, and am living abuse free and with peace everyday. There is no drama or chaos. The hyper no drama no baggage lover available and stress of being in the relationship and begging for crumbs,enduring more abuse, never knowing what was going to happen next,is gone, but west topsham VT sexy women with the stress of continued retreat, changing behavior and facing myself and my past.

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He contacted me early on and I was so frustrated I told him that if he continued to try to reach me, I would let his new GF know! But I also took myself off of face book for four months and only answered an email account for emails that I knew he did not know.

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I put off the inevitable because of that fear and allowed and caused a lot of pain doing it. Alibi and K, our behavior is insane.

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